Always Remember…

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  • You are not what happened to you in the past. – No matter how chaotic the past has been, the future is a clean, fresh, wide open slate. You are not your past habits. You are not your past failures. You are not how others have at one time treated you. You are only who you think you are right now in this moment. You are only what you do right now in this moment.  

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  • Not getting what you want can be a blessing. – Not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of good luck, because it forces you reevaluate things, opening new doors to opportunities and information you would have otherwise overlooked.  Remember, some things in life fall apart so that better things can fall together.

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  • Being a ‘work in progress’ is a great state to be in. – Stop berating yourself for being a work in progress.  Start embracing it!  Because being a work in progress doesn’t mean you’re not good enough today; it means you want a better tomorrow, and you wish to love yourself completely, so you can live your life fully.  It means you’re determined to heal your heart, expand your mind and cultivate the gifts you know you’re meant to share.  May we all be works in progress forever, and celebrate the fact that we are!

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  • Nobody else can do it for you. – Keep doing what you know in your heart is right for YOU.  Let your dreams be bigger than your fears and your actions louder than your words.  Live by choice, not by chance.  Make changes, not excuses.  Be motivated, not manipulated. Work to excel, not compete.  Choose to listen to your inner voice, not the jumbled opinions of everyone else.  It’s your road, and yours alone.  Others may walk it with you, but no one can walk it for you.

1376637_301645769976421_43362737_nLife is not easy, but it’s worth it. – If you expect it to be, you will perpetually disappoint yourself.  Achieving anything worthwhile in life takes effort.  So start every morning ready to run farther than you did yesterday and fight harder than you ever have before.  Above all, make sure you properly align your efforts with your goals.  It won’t be easy, but it will be worth it in the end.

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RELATIONSHIP TIPS FOR WOMEN AND MEN: (Dating)

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1) If a person wants you, they’d show it in every possible way.

2) If a person doesn’t want you, nothing can make them stay….

3) Stop making excuses for a person’s behavior.

4) Allow your intuition (or gut feeling) to save you from heartache.

5) Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be.

6) Slower is better.

7) Never live your life for someone before you find what makes you truly happy.

8) If a relationship ends because the person was not treating you as you deserve, then heck no, you can’t ‘be friends.’ A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend.

9) Don’t settle. If you feel like he/she is stringing you along, then he/she probably is.

10) Don’t stay because you think ‘it will get better.’ You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

11) The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

12) Always have your own set of friends separate from his/hers.

13) Maintain boundaries in how a person treats you; if something bothers you, speak up.

14) Be aware that healthy relationships are built on trust, and that trust takes time to develop. It may be unwise to share too much of yourself and about yourself too quickly. (See 6 above)

15) You cannot change anyone else’s behavior. Change comes from within.

16) Don’t EVER make he/she feel more important than you are, even if they have more education or a better job. And don’t ever make them less important than you are either.

17) Do not make them into a quasi-god; they are human, nothing more, nothing less.

18) Never let a person define who you are.

19) A person will only treat you the way you ALLOW them to treat you.

20) You should not be the one doing all the bending…compromise is a two-way street.

21) You need time to heal between relationships…there’s nothing useful about baggage… deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

22) You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you…a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals…look for someone complimentary…not supplementary.

23) Dating is fun…even if he/she doesn’t turn out to be Mr./Mrs Right.

24) Allow them to miss you sometimes…if  you’re always readily available  – they may take you for granted… remember that you have your own life to live which may not always include them.

25) Don’t fully commit to a person who doesn’t listen to you and try to help you meet your needs.

26) Don’t play games

27) When it’s time to let go, let go.

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Worth to share :)

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The day man dies, his money will still be in the bank or locker
When man is alive, he thinks he doesn’t have enough money to spend.
When man passes away, there is still a lot of money in his bank account not spent.

A British tycoon passed away.
He left for his widow 1 Billion Pounds in the bank.
The widow remarried one of her husband’s young employees.
The employee said,
“All this while I thought I was working for my boss.
I now realize that my boss was all the time working for me!”

Moral of the Story
It is more important to live longer than to have more wealth.
• Strive to have a strong and healthy body.
• In an expensive cell phone, 75% of the functions are useless.
• In an expensive car, 75% of the speed is not needed.
• In a big luxurious house, 75% of the space remains unoccupied or unutilized.
• In a whole wardrobe of clothes, 75% of them are rarely worn.
• Out of whole life’s earnings, 75% stays behind for other people to use.
• In every human being, 75% of the talent is not utilized

So, how to make full use of our 25%?
• Go for medical check-up even when you feel fit.
• Drink more water even if you’re not thirsty.
• Let go your ego, whenever you can.
• Give in even if you are right.
• Be humble even if you are very powerful.
• Be contented even if you are not rich.

Have a Great Life !

 

 

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Things You Should Not Tolerate.

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I no longer have patience for certain things, not because I’ve become arrogant, but simply because I reached a point in my life where I do not want to waste more time with what displeases me or hurts me. I have no patience for cynicism, excessive criticism and demands of any nature. I lost the will to please those who do not like me, to love those who do not love me and to smile at those who do not want to smile at me. I no longer spend a single minute on those who lie or want to manipulate.

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I decided not to coexist anymore with pretense, hypocrisy, dishonesty and cheap praise. I do not tolerate selective erudition nor academic arrogance. I do not adjust either to popular gossiping. I hate conflict and comparisons. I believe in a world of opposites and that’s why I avoid people with rigid and inflexible personalities. In friendship I dislike the lack of loyalty and betrayal. I do not get along with those who do not know how to give a compliment or a word of encouragement. Exaggerations bore me and I have difficulty accepting those who do not like animals. And on top of everything I have no patience for anyone who does not deserve my patience.

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Give yourself permission to follow the path that makes you happy.

10152000_855880524437687_3407340599085433875_nNo one has the right to judge you.  They might have heard your stories, but they didn’t feel what you were going through.  No matter what you do, there will always be someone who thinks differently.  So concentrate on doing what you know in your heart is right.  What most people think and say about you isn’t all that important.  What is important is how you feel about yourself.

You have control over your life. Don’t blame others. You have the power to change your life at any time and turn your worries into wisdom.

Live each moment in the service of a meaningful purpose.

Free yourself from the constant demands of your ego, practice to quiet your mind to be your very best.

Challenges are the stepping stones on your journey to help you grow. Look for the positive side of things.

You tell yourself a story inside your head every day. Make sure to tell the right one, the one that will help you get what you do want in life.

Give yourself permission to follow the path that makes you happy.

Remember to celebrate the blessings surrounding you and how far you’ve come, rather than focusing of what’s still left to be done.

The best you can do in life is follow your heart. Take risks. The people who can see how beautiful your heart is will never leave you.

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Never give up!

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Imagine yourself to be the type of person you want to be , and then   be it. You may have to let go of some bad habits and develop some more   positive ones, but don’t give up – for it is only in trying and   persisting that dreams come true.

Expect changes to occur, and realize that the power to make those changes comes from within you.

Your thoughts and actions , your choices and decisions , and the way   you spend your time determine who you are and who you will become.

You are capable and worthy of being and doing anything. You just need   the discipline and determination to see it through. It won’t come   instantly , and you may backslide from time to time ,but don’t let that   deter you.

Never give up.

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Life is an ever – changing process , and nothing is final. Therefore , each moment and every new day is a chance to begin a new.

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TOP 14 Reasons to Celebrate your SINGLENESS THIS VALENTINES DAY

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1. Because you’re so brave, you’d rather walk alone than with someone who is unworthy of you.

2. Because you realize that you are the cake and a relationship is the icing…With or without the icing, a cake is still a cake!

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3. Because you’ve created a life that you love and feel no need to be rescued from.

4. Because you pay your own bills, plan your own day, chart your own path, & make your own way.

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5. Because you love when you’re ready.. not because you’re lonely.

6. Because you live life on your terms… and you don’t apologize.

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7. Because you know that you have to learn to love you before you ask someone  else to.

8. Because “good enough” isn’t good enough for you.

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9. Because you’ve decided that whether or not love ever arrives…. you’re going to thrive.
10. Because your happiness, worth & self-confidence is not dependent on your relationship status.

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11. Because you trust GOD’s perfect timing & you know that  every moment of the wait is preparing you for the one you’ve been waiting for
12. Because for you… settling is not an option.

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13. Because you know it’s no one’s job to complete you, fix you, or validate you. It takes a healthy “me” to create a healthy “we”.
14. Because before you’re ready to wear a diamond… you want to become one.

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