BeeCharms’ Success

Remember always that you are just a visitor here, a traveller passing through. Your stay is but short and the moment of your departure unknown.

None can live without toil, and a craft that provides your needs is a blessing indeed. But if you toil without rest, fatigue and weariness will overtake you, and you will be denied the joy that comes from labour’s end.

If you never heal from what hurt you, you’ll bleed on people who didn’t cut you”. We must stop killing good relationships around us by transferring aggression to others. Hurt feelings are inevitable in relationships, bound to arise in a fast-paced world of imperfect communication between people. Pain is a part of life, as everyone goes through painful experiences at some point in their lives. It is how we cope with our pain and negative experiences that actually matters. When one carries painful memories, mistrust, or any hurt from the past, it is called emotional baggage.

Don’t wound others to heal yourself. Heal before you go into the next relationship or else, your next partner will be the object and target of your pain. Never allow your past hurts to define you. It was just a lesson, not a life sentence. Look for the lessons that you’ve learnt from the experience. Focus on appreciating who you have become because of what you have experienced. People will hurt you, but what you do with that hurt is probably more important than the hurt itself. Don’t just go through your hurts, grow through your hurt.

There was a peasant in the world, and every day he regularly prayed to the Lord. And each time he offered Him the same prayer: 

“Lord, there is no man in the world who is more unfortunate than me!” Every day I suffer immensely and ask myself: “What terrible sin have I committed to deserve such punishment? Have mercy on me, hear my prayers. I do not dare to ask you for happiness or wealth.

My request is modest and insignificant: let someone take my hardships to himself and give his own in return. I do not care with whom to change, because no one will have a burden that would be heavier than mine.”

Heaven heard his prayers, and once a peasant heard a heavenly voice say to him:
“Put all your troubles and misfortunes into a bag and take them to the temple.”

The voice was so loud that all the inhabitants of the city heard it and began to bag their adversities. The peasant was delighted: now he will surely find someone with whom to exchange!

Encouraged and cheerful, he grabbed the bag and went to the temple, meeting many people on the way, who, like him, hurried to get rid of their misfortunes.

Having reached the temple, the peasant looked at the people gathered at the entrance and was horrified: rich and poor, beautiful and ugly, they held huge bags, much bigger and heavier than his bundle, which now seemed small and pitiful.

Upon entering the temple, they again heard the voice that ordered them:

“Put your bags at the door of the temple, and take any person’s bag you like with you before you leave.”

But people did not dare to part with their bags. They turned around and left the temple, not wanting to change their burden with anyone. Among them was that peasant. He walked, pressing the bag with his misfortunes to his chest so much as if he was afraid that someone would take it.

Each of them returned home with their own burden, but everyone was pleased with the choice. The farmer was also glad. He was scared to even think about what troubles and sorrows he could bring with him with someone else’s bag.

Blessed be the mind that dreamed the day
the blueprint of your life
would begin to glow on earth,
illuminating all the faces and voices
that would arrive to invite
your soul to growth.

1. You can recover from the worst situations and in fact they will make you stronger and wiser than you ever thought possible.

2. Time does, in fact, heal all things as does forgiveness.

Well, the year Is finally wrapped up, looking back, I made some mistakes along the way, just like the next person, as a matter of fact, I have disappointed, at times been inpatient, probably been a little insecure, been out of control and at times hard to bare with.

My Prayer Dear Family and Friends is that you forgive me and continue to bare with me as I look upon myself and work on myself in the present new year, while I haven’t always been my best, I will continue to better myself and will continue to seek God’s Enlightenment and Wisdom.

I Love You All and Bless You In God’s Name.

If you have forgotten what you deserve — let me remind you.

You deserve someone asking you to slow dance on a weeknight in the street.
You deserve someone unapologetically pouring their heart out to you.
You deserve flowers sent to your office.
You deserve being a part of their entire world, not being their best-kept secret.
You deserve Sunday morning where they want you to stay.

You deserve to never feel badly for saying what you think and feel.
You deserve someone who wants to be there, not someone who is bored.
You deserve sleeping next to someone who leaves you whole, not lying next to a stranger that makes you feel lonely.
You deserve someone who wants to go to the ends of the earth to be with you, not someone who makes you go all the way alone. Because relationships are 50/50. Remember that.

You deserve to have someone helps carry the burdens life throws at you. Because life struggles were never meant to be endured alone.
You deserve someone drying your tears, never causing them.
You deserve all these things. You just have to be brave enough to ask for them.

Please, my dear, life is too short and you are too young, you are too beautiful, you are too worth it to settle for anything less than extraordinary. And I know you question if it’s out there, but it
is. It’s waiting for you.

Listen — soulmates are real, and love is something you can believe in. Promise me that you will believe in it. Promise me that you will never settle.

By: Kirsten Corley

Sometimes you can reject the present moment because you think it is not enough. Instead of being focused on where you are, your mind could be aimed at where you think you should be. But the power is in the present. The solution you are seeking is right in front of you. What you have in your hands is the key out of the wilderness. In the present moment you can find solutions to every problem you are battling. By tapping into what’s around you, you will discover the path to freedom, peace, fulfillment, and healing. So much pain comes from wishing to be somewhere else and not seeing what’s in front of your face. When your mind is constantly racing ahead to the future, you are not grounded; you are not anchored and you will block the flow of greater blessings. The past informs you as your future inspires you. While you may not have all you want, you have all you need right here, right now to triumph in the face of struggles. Today, begin to fall in love with now. Slow down to see that the present moment is more than enough… and so are you. -Molesey Crawford

I know we were taught different.
I get it.
But I also know what it feels like to lose my mind.
I also know what it’s like to break down and STILL not have the answers. But I can tell you there’s only one way after that, and that’s “up”. The cathartic release that follows breaking down really helped me with breathing.
Yes, breathing. 
Just breathing.
Because you don’t have to have all the answers, you don’t even have to have a fucking plan.
You just need to accept that pain happened,
and now it’s time to heal.
But the hard part is over.
(Not that healing is easy…)
It’s up to you in how you want to look at it but you can’t rebuild if you never break down.
You can’t start over if you never give up.
You can’t get better if you can’t admit that everything is not perfect.
And you know what happens when you do????
The weight of the world slides right off of your shoulders and onto the ground…where it belongs.
You are free now.
Free to choose wherever you want to go,
whatever you want to do.
You get to be a smarter, healthier, STRONGER you.
And I couldn’t applaud you more for seeing that there is hope outside of this pain.
KEEP GOING.