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just a thoughts ♥

We get mad over the smallest reasons. We over-analyze everything.
We feel a sense of jealousy when we see you talking to someone who has more to offer.
We get sad at the thought of ever losing you.
We start pointless arguments and fights, just to see if you care enough to stick around.
We often say things we later regret.
We want to know you care as much as we do.
It’s because we’re girls, and we need to be reassured from time to time♥

Every girl dreams of getting married, the big white dress, the handsome groom, all the decorations and the exotic honeymoon. But they don’t talk about the marriage, thats what I dream of, everyday life with you.
Getting ready together, kissing goodbye in the morning,
coming home at night and unwinding together, grocery shopping, cleaning, laundry, cooking, the ups and downs. the good the bad and the ugly.
Thats what I dream of♥

You can never tell what people are thinking and feeling unless they tell you, and usually they lie.
You ask them, ‘whats wrong?’ and they say ‘nothing’. You accept this because it’s easier than digging for the truth.
people smile when they want to cry, they laugh when they want to scream and shout. They pretend like nothing is wrong because they don’t want to face the truth.
things aren’t always rainbows and butterflies, sometimes you gotta scream and cry your anger and sadness to the world, because you can only hold it in for so long before something in you snaps.
So when you want to cry, cry. when you want to scream, scream. Don’t hide behind fake smiles, it’s ok to not be alright.

It doesn’t matter if you have a boyfriend or a bunch of friends.
If you’re lonely then you will feel lonely with or without these factors.
They don’t change it. They don’t make you feel less alone.
Lonely doesn’t mean you don’t have people who love you, it just means you don’t feel it.
It’s a state of mind, not reality.

I want a simple love that is full of laughter & smiles and is never-ending. I want to hold someones hand and know I’m home. I want to wear a pretty white dress and walk into the chapel and watch his face light up. I want to be naive, head-over-heels, and completely senseless but completely in love. I want to sit in rocking chairs at 80 years old, next to the one person who never left and who made me better, and not regret one single second of my life. I hope I find this someday♥



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Leos born on August 21 are practitioners of conspicuous consumption and don’t make any apologies about it. They enjoy luxurious surroundings and have a knack for accumulating material wealth and possessions. They are jovial and friendly. A great love and respect for learning, though not immediately apparent, is well known to and applauded by people close to these folks.

Friends and Lovers

August 21 people have a huge social circle that includes friends of all stripes. Love is almost always a positive experience for them. They don’t believe in being a victim and can bounce back from a breakup more readily than most people.

Children and Family

Family closeness is the cornerstone of life for August 21 natives. Being a parent is the emotional high of a lifetime for them. They understand how to enter a child’s world and how to bring a lifetime of experience to something as simple as a make-believe tea party.


August 21 folks love good food and good wine and sometimes have a hard time knowing when to cut back. They need to learn the importance of regular exercise. They need to commit to daily aerobic-style workouts if they want to remain in good physical condition.

Career and Finances

August 21 natives prefer a demanding job that keeps them going at a hectic pace all day long. These people like the social give and take that comes with the activity in a large firm with plenty of colleagues. They have big plans that include making a lot of money. They have something of the entrepreneurial spirit about them and may try starting their own business at some point.

Dreams and Goals

August 21 individuals have unflappable optimism. Their dreams and wishes are as concrete to them as any reality, and they don’t allow themselves to be discouraged. They are intelligent and capable, with just the right balance of naivete and common sense to get the job done.

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I Promise Myself…

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You are …

You are strong ..
when you take your grief and teach it to smile.

You are brave ..
when you overcome your fear and help others
to do the same.

You are happy ..
when you see a flower and are thankful
for the blessing.

You are loving ..
when your own pain does not blind you to the
pain of others.

You are wise ..
when you know the limits of your wisdom.

You are true ..
when you admit there are times you
fool yourself.

You are alive ..
when tomorrow’s hope means more to you than
yesterday’s mistake.

You are growing ..
when you know what you are but not what you
will become.

You are free ..
when you are in control of yourself and do not wish
to control others.

You are honorable ..
when you find your honor is to honor others.

You are generous ..
when you can take as sweetly as you can give.

You are humble ..
when you do not know how humble you are.

You are thoughtful ..
when you see me just as I am and treat me
just as you are.

You are merciful ..
when you forgive in others the faults you condemn
in yourself.

You are beautiful ..
when you don’t need a mirror to tell you.

You are rich ..
when you never need more than what you have.

You are you ..
when you are at peace with who you are not.

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The Road of Life

It can be a funny thing as we travel on this train called life.

Happiness may seem to be a hard thing to achieve at times

but it is never impossible. There are so many events in

each of our lives that can be a learning experience.

I have learned never to judge a person upon a first encounter.

Different people have different baggage; you never know

when you may meet a person on a bad day.

Never leave a love one with cross words or on a bad note.

Not only do you risk the chance of never seeing this person

again the conscience-..stricken feelings you are left

with are practically unbearable.

I have come to believe the most beautiful sound in the

world is the laughter of a small child. There is not one

sound that is more innocent and full of hope, life and possibilities.

Always love what you do as you work your way through life.

Life is much too short to be stuck in a mundane job that

you hate to go to everyday. You can choose to spend your

time doing something you love or waste it and in the end have nothing.

Through trials and tribulations,

I have learned you can love someone with all of your heart

and they will never, ever love you back.

I have also found along this journey that the best love is

developed from true friendship. Being able to love the

person you call your best friend is a miracle within itself.

In anger, you may find words that hurt others

on the edge of your tongue. The best place for those

words is left on the tongue. Once spoken, words can

never be taken back, much less forgotten.

Learning to forgive is one of the greatest strength

a person can develop. It is never easy to forgive and almost

impossible to forget, being able to go down the road less

traveled will take discipline but is very much worth the ride.

I have discovered many times the ones you love and

depend on most will hurt you. It may not be intentionally,

but it will happen. Trust takes a long time to build and

only a matter of seconds to destroy.

I have determined that in most cases it is best to mind

your own business. You never know when the information

you learn will change your life forever.

We fall in and out of love but as bad as you may feel at times,

you will not die of a broken heart. Life will take many turns.

Some ups and some downs, we must always remember to be

true to ourselves. Only you can make yourself happy.

Remember, Stand up for the things you believe in,

stand by those you love and always be true to yourself.

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Make realistic goals for yourself,

write them down, pray about them

and try to achieve them! 
Go through your cell phone, 

caller id, calendar, and email

addresses and discard all the 

people and events that mean 

you no good or don't benefit your life!
If you are involved w/ a person,

job, or circumstance that is doing

more harm than good, do yourself

a favor - LET IT GO!
Stop being someone's mistress; 

especially if you are aware 

that you are!!!!
Take care of your kids and 

devote a weekend or two 

when you spend "quality"

time with them. 
Get your debt in order!
Stop spreading senseless rumors 

and try to get your own life in order!
Listen more! Talk Less!
Give without worrying about it!
Say no for once!
Tell people you love them before

your hear about some great tragedy

in the world or lose a close friend! 

Speak clearly and not ignorantly! 

Anyone can be a fool. 
If you are married, stop cheating..

If you're guilty of this, ask

God to forgive you 

and don't do it again! 
Remember the Ten Commandments. 

Stop waiting on tax season 
and save now!

Eat what you need and not 

just because you can!

See how long you can go

without checking your cell 

phone when it's not ringing.

Be more positive and 

stop being a grouch! 


If you don't like my style, kick rocks! 

Start telling your children that

when you're having a "grown folks" 

conversation, they need to go play. 

(Remember back when?) 

Appreciate everyone.. 

WHY do we put each other down

for the most ridiculous things?!?

Men and women! Cry more!

It's therapeutic!

Stop tripping about not being 

where you want to be! 

What have you been doing

to get there?!?

If you aren't in relationship,

it's not the end of the world! 

Self love is more valuable!

If God delivers you from a messy 

relationship, friend or situation, 

why do you keep 


Let it go!


All of us have been forgiven for

some low life things! 

So open your heart! 

Remember - God forgave you!

Men, stop trying to be so hard 

when it comes to relationships..... 

Let that guard down before you 

lose the one that's meant for you! 

Speak up for yourself!

Learn a new hobby! 

Broaden your mind.

If you're single, start going on more dates 

with different types of people... 

Don't just stick to the same

type of woman or man! 

Stop forwarding all the text 

messages you receive; 

everyone doesn't have 

unlimited text messages!!

Stop replying to ALL!

Live like today like is your last day,

love like God taught us, and 

laugh like you've never laughed before!

Lastly, if it's only 5 minutes a day have a 

little talk with Jesus! Let Him know you

want to be better today than you were 

yesterday and watch Him turn

things around for you! 

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I accept myself completely.

I accept my strengths 

and my weaknesses,

my gifts and my shortcomings,

my good points and my faults.

I accept myself completely 

as a human being.

I accept that I am here 

to learn and grow, and

I accept that I am learning and growing.

I accept the personality 

I've developed, and

I accept my power to heal and change.

I accept myself without condition 

or reservation.

I accept that the core of my being 

is goodness and

that my essence is love,

and I accept that 

I sometimes forget that.

I accept myself completely, 

and in this acceptance

I find an ever-deepening inner strength.

From this place of strength,

I accept my life fully and

I open to the lessons it offers me today.

I accept that within my mind

are both fear and love, and

I accept my power to choose

which I will experience as real.

I recognize that I experience 

only the results of my own choices.

I accept the times that I choose fear

as part of my learning

and healing process, and

I accept that I have

potential and power

in any moment to choose love instead.

I accept mistakes as a part of growth,

so I am always willing

to forgive myself and

give myself another chance.

I accept that my life is the expression 

of my thought, and

I commit myself to 

aligning my thoughts

more and more each day

with the Thought of Love.

I accept that I am

an expression of this Love.

Love's hands and voice 

and heart on earth.

I accept my own life

as a blessing and a gift.

My heart is open to receive,

and I am deeply grateful.

May I always share the gifts that I receive

fully, freely, and with joy.

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