If you are involved with a weak man, you will always end up sharing him. Curse out two girls, three will be back next week. He is the problem, not the other women. Your job is to love your man, not to babysit him. You can’t spend your life trying to guard against what might happen when he’s left alone. The unpopular truth is that a man will always do what he wants to do. If your love isn’t enough to discipline him, then it’s misplaced on him. How do you compete with other women? You find a man strong enough not to make them your competition in the first place.n strong enough not to make them your competition in the first place.