Know your worth! When you give yourself to someone who doesn’t respect you, you surrender pieces of your soul that you’ll never get back. There comes a point when you have to let go and stop chasing some people. If someone wants you in their life, they’ll find a way to put you there. Sometimes you just need to let go and accept the fact that they don’t care for you the way you care for them. Let them leave your life quietly. Letting go is oftentimes easier than holding on. We think it’s too hard to let go, until we actually do. Then we ask ourselves, “Why didn’t I do this sooner?”
Love means giving someone the chance to hurt you, but trusting them not to. When you completely trust a person, without any doubt, you’ll automatically get one of two results – a FRIEND for life or a LESSON for life. Either way there’s a positive outcome. Either you confirm the fact that this person cares about you, or you get the opportunity to weed them out of your life and make room for those who do. In the end you’ll discover who’s fake, who’s true, and who would risk it all for you. And trust me, some people will totally surprise you.
Being beautiful is more than how many people you can get to look at you, or how others perceive you at a single glance. It’s about what you live for. It’s about what defines you. It’s about the depth of your heart, and what makes you unique. It’s about being who you are and living out your life honestly. It’s about those little quirks that make you, you. People who are only attracted to you because of your pretty face or nice body won’t stay by your side forever. But the people who can see how beautiful your heart is will never leave you.
Let us keep in mind that we can’t force anyone to love us. We shouldn’t beg someone to stay when they want to leave. That’s what love is all about – freedom. However, the end of love is not the end of life. It should be the beginning of an understanding that love sometimes leaves for a reason, but never leaves without a lesson. If someone truly loves you, they will never give you a reason to doubt it. Anyone can come into your life and say how much they love you, but it takes someone really special to stay in your life and prove how much they love you. Sometimes it takes awhile to find the right person, but the right person is always worth the wait.
Divert your mind on something else when anything happened in your past bothers you. Sometimes its not possible for you to change things. All you can do is change yourself and focus on different aspects of life. Work life is different than living life with your family. Don’t mix both. Give time to your dear ones. Try to find happiness from within and not from external sources. Be calm, peaceful and enjoy your company. Be your own friend and appreciate all the good and bad qualities you possess. Don’t praise yourself in front of others, but constantly in your mind. If you finish any work don’t expect others to praise you. You are getting better and better day by day. Be proud of you for how you performed and always feel like you are a legend.
Our expectations will betray us more than anyone or anything will. Learn to accept more, expect less, extract the truth of what is and escape the negative emotional reaction to what isn’t. Stay busy making what u need a reality and waste no time in fruitless unproductive criticism of others. Action is the loudest clearest voice there is. We are responsible for what we want, no one else is. It is wise to expect more of ourselves and less of others. Be our own solutions and spend less energy on resentment.