July thoughts…

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Yesterday is done! Leave your worries, pain, and regret there. Close that chapter of hurt. Turn the page today by leaving everything that has kept you from loving yourself in the past. It’s time for your life to go to new destinations of LOVE, PEACE, and JOY. Elevation requires separation, so make a decision today to separate your life from the baggage that does NO GOOD for your life. It all starts with you.

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Sometimes when you’re lonely, it’s easy to ignore the bad things someone has done to you and you find yourself holding on to those rare happy moments because having anyone at all is better than having no one, right? No. Never settle for less out of loneliness. You’re worth way more than that.

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When you run into someone who discredits you, disrespects you and treats you poorly for no apparent reason at all, don’t consume yourself with trying to change them or win their approval. And be sure not to leave any space in your heart to hate them. Simply walk away and let karma deal with the things they say and do, because any bit of time you spend on these people will be wasted, and any bit of hate and aggravation left in your heart will only hurt you in the end.

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June thoughts…

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It’s easy to feel uncared for when people aren’t able to communicate and connect with you in the way you need. And it’s so hard not to internalize that silence as a reflection on your worth. But the truth is that the way other people operate is not about you. Most people are so caught up in their own responsibilities, struggles, and anxiety that the thought of asking someone else how they’re doing doesn’t even cross their mind. They aren’t inherently bad or uncaring — they’re just busy and self-focused. And that’s okay. It’s not evidence of some fundamental failing on your part. It doesn’t make you unlovable or invisible. It just means that those people aren’t very good at looking beyond their own world. But the fact that you are — that despite the darkness you feel, you have the ability to share your love and light with others — is a strength. Your work isn’t to change who you are; it’s to find people who are able to give you the connection you need. Because despite what you feel, you are not too much. You are not too sensitive or too needy. You are thoughtful and empathetic. You are compassionate and kind. And with or without anyone’s acknowledgment or affection, you are enough. – Daniell Koepke

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If you’re laying in bed wrapped up in sheets of miserable thought, go to sleep.
If thumbing through old messages only cause your heart to ache and long for something unattainable, erase them.
If it hurts to keep everything you’re feeling bottled up inside, let it out.
If you’re clinging onto someone that doesn’t treat you like you’re worth the world, let them go
Because sometimes we choose to believe that things are only indistinguishable shades of gray when in reality, life is more black and white than it seems.
If you’re unhappy with the way you are living your life,
Change it…..

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It’s such a scary thing giving your heart to someone, because you never know what they’re going to do with it. Let alone, what they’re really doing behind closed doors… The mind is the most private place in the entire world and you’re never going to know what’s going on inside someone’s head, unless they truthfully tell you. So in order to make things work, people need to learn self control first and train their brain to fight temptation before they even think about being in a committed relationship. Discipline may seem painful to some, but later on brings peace to those who are well trained. There is no better luxury than being safe with the person you love. Especially when this person has the ability to break your heart in seconds, but instead chooses to protect. – Melissa Molomo.

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R U Strong enough to be my Man?

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If you are involved with a weak man, you will always end up sharing him. Curse out two girls, three will be back next week. He is the problem, not the other women. Your job is to love your man, not to babysit him. You can’t spend your life trying to guard against what might happen when he’s left alone. The unpopular truth is that a man will always do what he wants to do. If your love isn’t enough to discipline him, then it’s misplaced on him. How do you compete with other women? You find a man strong enough not to make them your competition in the first place.n strong enough not to make them your competition in the first place.

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Thoughts to Ponder…

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When you’re struggling and maybe even hard to deal with, that doesn’t make you a burden. It doesn’t make you unlovable or undesirable or undeserving of care. It doesn’t make you too much or too sensitive or too needy. It makes you human. Everyone struggles. Everyone has a difficult time coping, and at times, we all fall apart. During these times, we aren’t always easy to be around — and that’s okay. No one is easy to be around one hundred percent of the time. Yes, you may sometimes be unpleasant or difficult. And yes, you may sometimes do or say things that make the people around you feel helpless or sad. But those things aren’t all of who you are and they certainly don’t discount your worth as a human being. The truth is that you can be struggling and still be loved. You can be difficult and still be cared for. You can be less than perfect, and still be deserving of compassion and kindness. And if you have the right people in your life, they will know your heart and they will understand.

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I wouldn’t say I’ve changed, but I’ve matured, I’ve learned. My experiences over time have molded me into a different person. I’m not as nice as I used to be. I won’t allow anyone myself to be put in any position to be taken advantage of. I don’t trust everyone and tell them my secrets because most of them can’t wait to hold it against me. I distance myself from negative people because, in the end, they’re only going to leave when I’m no longer of any use to them. If I have changed, it’s because I’ve realized that I’m the only person I can depend on. Learn not to expect much from anyone. It’s better to be surprised than disappointed.

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Don’t put the only keys to your growth and happiness in someone else’s pocket. Relationships are not about authority and obedience; they are agreements of love and respect. You simply can’t live your entire life through someone else’s fantasies. There must be compromise and the space to do what’s right for you, even if someone you care about disagrees. Give, but don’t allow yourself to be used. Listen to loved ones, but don’t lose track of your inner voice in the process. Never apologize for what you feel and what you don’t feel; that’s a betrayal of your truth. No matter how much advice people give you, sometimes you have to feel things out for yourself, make decisions on your own, experience things first hand, and build your own conclusions from the ground up the old fashioned way.

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Unang Tuig natong duha :)

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“A relationship means you come together to make each other better. It’s not all about you, and it’s not all about them. Its all about the relationship.
Support them in their dreams/vision just as much as you would expect them to support you. Make each other better. Challenge each other to go beyond average. Pull out the greatness from within each other.
Make sure they can find their biggest fan in you, and you can find yours in them.”
~Trent Shelton

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY HONEY :) <3

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Happy 1st anniversary honey <3

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Whatever happens.. happens for something good :)

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What you want, what you think and what you do definitely play a part in what happens in your life, but at the same time, what happens to your life is based on a hundred different factors, most of which are out of your control. Destiny is made up of two parts, the one that you create and the one that happens to you you and you need to accept. Sometimes, when your efforts align with external factors, things go well, at other times no matter how much you try, things simply don’t seem to happen. Life is not about leaving it all on luck and simply not putting any efforts, and at the same time, life is not about thinking you can do whatever you want to, achieve anything you set your eyes on. Its great to have goals, its great to chase one’s dreams, but there’s no beating the realities of life. Give life your best shot, but learn to accept all the roadblocks and failures that come on your way, and just like the challenges, you never know when life will turn things in your favor and make things happen out of thin air. :)

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You Are You

You Are You
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You are strong. . . when you take your
grief and teach it to smile.

You are brave. . . when you overcome your
fear and help others to do the same.

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You are happy. . . when you see a flower
and are thankful for the blessing.

You are loving. . . when your own pain
does not blind you to the pain of others.

You are wise. . . when you
know the limits of your wisdom.

You are true. . . when you admit
there are times you fool yourself.

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You are alive. . . when tomorrow’s hope means
more to you than yesterday’s mistake.

You are growing. . . when you know what
you are but not what you will become.

You are free. . . when you are in control of
yourself and do not wish to control others.

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You are honorable. . . when you find
your honor is to honor others.

You are generous. . . when you
can take as sweetly as you can give.

You are humble. . . when you
do not know how humble you are.

You are thoughtful. . . when you see me
just as I am and treat me just as you are.

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You are merciful. . . when you forgive in
others the faults you condemn in yourself.

You are beautiful. . . when you
don’t need a mirror to tell you.

You are rich. . . when you never
need more than what you have.

You are you. . . when you are
at peace with who you are not.

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